Akshay Kumar calls Twinkle Khanna ‘trophy wife’ for winning Crossword Popular Choice Award: What does the word mean?

The definition and its implications

Juhi Pandey, a psychologist at Mpower, Aditya Birla Education Trust, said that the term refers to a younger woman married to a wealthy and successful older man. “A trophy is a symbol of achievement, often displayed with pride. Similarly, a ‘trophy wife’ is perceived as an accomplishment that enhances a man’s status,” she said.

Pandey also explained the negative undertones of the term. “It implies the woman is valued solely for her physical appearance, youth, and beauty, rather than her individuality or abilities. This reinforces objectification, framing the woman as a possession rather than a partner,” she said.

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How can these connotations impact a woman’s self-worth?

Pandey said that such labels can significantly harm a woman’s self-esteem. “Being objectified for physical traits alone diminishes recognition of her other qualities and capabilities. Over time, this can erode confidence and self-worth,” she said.

Women can also end up doubting themselves if the partner’s status is emphasised over her own. “Every woman goes through different phases biologically which affects her body size and shape. The unrealistic standards often associated with ‘trophy wives’—such as maintaining a specific appearance despite the natural biological changes—can affect mental and emotional well-being,” said Pandey.