Actor Hrithik Roshan’s cousin Pashmina Roshan recently shared her thoughts on her bond with his girlfriend, Saba Azad, describing her as “the kindest soul.” She reflected on how their relationship has evolved, saying she often forgets the romantic dynamic and feels like Saba is more of a friend.
In a conversation with Galatta India, she revealed, “Saba is one of the kindest souls I know. It was very early on in her relationship with Duggu bhaiya that I started feeling like… I forgot that she’s dating him, I felt like she’s my friend and he’s there also.”
She added, “It happens very often that we hijack her, Suranika and I, we hijack her take her to the room and he’s (Hrithik) like, ‘where is Saba?’”
Pashmina expressed that she’s very close to the singer and considers her a part of the family. “She is my sister and I feel like she’s been my sister for even before I met her… and I feel like we have a soul connection.”
Her remarks highlight the unique dynamics of building friendships with siblings’ significant others, a relationship that can bring its own set of joys and challenges.
While some people may find it effortless to connect with their sibling’s partner, others might face hesitations or conflicts, often rooted in personal dynamics, family expectations, or differing personalities. Understanding how to nurture authentic relationships in these situations can make all the difference in fostering harmony and inclusivity within the family.
Factors that help build authentic friendships with a sibling’s partner
Sonal Khangarot, licensed rehabilitation counsellor and psychotherapist, The Answer Room, tells indianexpress.com, “Building a genuine relationship with a sibling’s partner requires an understanding of family dynamics, open communication, and empathy.”
She continues, “Having an open mind helps understand and welcome the new addition to the family. It’s important to build a connection not just based on their role as your sibling’s partner but also by getting to know them as individuals—their beliefs, values, and personality.”
If you’ve seen your sibling with other partners in the past, Khangarot explains that it’s natural to compare their former relationships to the current ones unconsciously. However, this can cloud your judgment of the new partner. Trying to avoid such comparisons can help foster a positive relationship and adapt to the new family dynamics.
Building a relationship involves time, emotions, and shared experiences. Meeting your sibling’s partner in a low-pressure setting can facilitate a more natural connection. Engaging in shared activities and spending time together can further strengthen the bond.
Understanding how to nurture authentic relationships in these situations can make all the difference in fostering harmony and inclusivity within the family. (Source: Freepik)
Navigating potential challenges
Khangarot suggests, “Being your true, authentic self and meeting people where they are can serve as the foundation for new relationships. Challenges may arise, such as jealousy or being overly protective of your sibling, but these can be navigated through clear communication. It’s important to understand your own needs and wants. If something doesn’t feel right, there are ways to address it.”
People meet us where they’ve met themselves. We all have our own life stories, and differences in opinions, lifestyle choices, values, and beliefs are natural — and acceptable. We encounter differences even with our immediate family members, yet we learn to navigate them. The same approach can be applied here, notes Khangarot.
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